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Chapter twentySANITY-SAVERS
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Practical and psychological pros and cons
Finding your sanity-savers
Some helpful general reading and websites
Some helpful organisations
Disabled Living Centres
The Disabled Living Foundation
NAIDEX
Social services departments and Occupational Therapists
Commercial suppliers of gadgets and disability equipment
Advice before you buy
Consumer advice
Doorstep salesmen
Online shopping
Funding of disability products and equipment
Value Added Tax (VAT) relief and disabled people
Hiring or borrowing disability products
Buying secondhand
One-off or tailor-made aids, and Remap
Overcoming some communication difficulties
Phoning
Writing and gripping
Reading
Computers and word processing
Keeping up-to-date with equipment, products and design
How can we outwit the arthritis in a practical way, in our everyday activities, from washing and dressing, or coping with cooking and housework, to getting out and about or coping with work? The world simply isn't designed for people like us with weak grip, stiff joints, and limited strength frustrating enough before you even begin to add the fatigue and aches and pains that multiply the misery. All too easy to feel very disabled and frustrated, however able-bodied we may look.
Fortunately there are plenty of ways of getting over practical problems, to maximise abilities and retrieve some sanity! 'Disability products' or 'tools for living' are jargon phrases replacing the old 'aids' (for disabled people). Why not gadgets? A related term is ADL, meaning 'activities of daily living'. And you may also come across the term 'assistive technology' (AT). Assistive technology is any product or service designed to enable independence for disabled and older people.
The right gadget or piece of equipment or adaptation can make a dramatic difference to keeping yourself as independent and sweet-tempered as possible, and can help you protect your joints and conserve energy. It doesn't have to be expensive, or even 'specially for disabled people'. A piece of wire, bent the right way, has served me as a boot zip puller-up in the past. Spending a few pounds on an extension plug (the sort with curly-wurly leads, found in hardware or DIY shops) can temporarily 'raise' an unreachable electric socket. Often the simplest and cheapest solution is the best, or maybe just a new way of doing something. Or even, as one younger person with arthritis (YPA) put it "some things I just leave"!
Some of us are too embarrassed to use special gadgets or adaptations; we feel we're making ourselves look 'odd' or 'different'. I'm still cross with myself for having delayed so long using an 'easyreach/longreach' gadget at work, through embarrassment. It makes life so much easier. Using it is now so automatic that my embarrassment is long forgotten, and because I'm not embarrassed, other people too accept it as just a part of me, and forget about it. Any comments I get tend to be expressions of genuine interest or envy even 'where can I get one?' If a gadget helps, use it! After all, people who wear glasses are using special 'aids', aren't they, and they're accepted as perfectly normal.
Using special gadgets doesn't mean you're 'giving in'. Is it really better to carry on moaning (outwardly or inwardly) about problems which could be solved, or nagging other people to do things for you which a gadget would enable you to do instead? Why let the arthritis give you more problems than there need be? Defy it! If a gadget helps, use it!
Special gadgets aren't only for severely disabled people. Look at all the 'aids' used by cooks, gardeners, car drivers, housewives. What's a computer or a drill or a food mixer if not an 'aid'? It's just that they're called gadgets or tools or labour-saving devices. So what if it's a gadget 'for disabled people'? Magically, by using it, you're actually making yourself more able and less disabled.
Moreover, one of the most important reasons why someone with inflammatory arthritis should use gadgets or adaptations (provided they're used the right way) is to avoid becoming severely disabled, to help avoid joint damage or deformity, and to conserve energy for more essential or enjoyable activities. Maybe you can struggle to open a tin manually, but at what cost to your joints? An electric can-opener (the right sort) could save time, energy, pain, and help avoid further joint distortion.
So please do take joint-saving and sanity-saving devices and tricks seriously. They're as essential a part of your treatment as going to the doctor or taking the tablets. ARC have a free booklet Looking After Your Joints When You Have Arthritis (downloadable), useful for people with other inflammatory types of arthritis too, such as psoriatic arthritis, and for people with osteoarthritis, especially of the hands.
Your doctor may give you some advice, but where can you find out more? Occupational Therapists (OTs), also known as 'Disabled Living Advisers', are the experts. Babette, a newcomer to RA, found just one visit from the OT solved several 'small' problems which added together had been getting her down. Lorraine's life was transformed by a bedsit extension with shower and toilet, built on to her family's home. Another young housewife and her family got totally frustrated by her inability to do anything, especially in the kitchen, and her husband even gave up work to try to help. Someone suggested they contact the social services OT.
In the kitchen, the OT arranged for cupboards and surfaces to be lowered so they could be reached sitting down. A trolley helped with moving things around the kitchen, and a washing machine/tumble drier meant heavy wet washing no longer had to be lugged around. Cupboards were replaced by large storage drawers to avoid having to reach into awkward corners. Other gadgets provided by the OT included an automatic bath lift, a longreach gadget, and a spring-loaded chair. The husband was able to return to work, and the whole family felt much happier generally.
Your rheumatologist may refer you to an Occupational therapist (OT). Or you can ask for referral to a community OT through your doctor, or you can refer yourself direct, through your local authority social services department. Ask for referral as early as possible: it's never too early, and there's a shortage of OTs in some areas, so you may have to wait anyway. If there's a very long delay try asking your doctor if s/he can help hurry things up for you. More about OTs below, and in chapters 4 and 6.
You can help yourself, too. Train yourself (family and friends too) to look at the oddest things with the question 'could that somehow make life easier for me?' Try DIY shops, pet shops, even sports, camping and cycle shops. In an art shop I found just the right long-handled paintbrush for applying moisture cream to my dry, rapidly ageing neck! In a shop selling climbing or sailing gear you'll find carabina clips, used for clipping ropes together. They remain firmly closed in use but are opened easily by pressing down lightly on one bar. Attached to dog-lead clips they proved ideal for one YPA (younger person with arthritis) for attaching her baby's walking reins or safety harness. In a children's mail-order catalogue I found a perfect battery-operated pencil-sharpener, and lightweight melamine plates and bowls in bright cheery designs. Simple plastic bags or long-handled dustpans become nifty devices for getting things out of the fridge or off shelves. If you can manage safety pins, clip one on your watch strap they can slit open tight plastic wrappers wherever and whenever other things too.
Let your brain ease the strain, and help conserve energy. Work out shortcuts or new ways of doing things, at home, at work, at leisure. Boil potatoes in their skins or cook jacket potatoes instead of peeling them. Use convenience foods. Plan the week's menus ahead. Shop around from your armchair when possible. Make your home (even just a part of it) the one place where you feel as little disabled as possible. List the obstacles to be overcome and set about finding the solutions.
Books, leaflets, and the internet can give you ideas. I can't tell you here about all the gadgets and tricks available, but can tell you where to start looking. Other chapters will also help, and you'll pick up tips from other people with similar problems. Seek your OT's advice where possible, before buying things, especially anything expensive when you can, alas, all too easily 'be taken for a ride'. Find out all you can beforehand about different options and try before you buy. Disabled Living Centres (DLCs) or NAIDEX exhibitions are good places to see what's available. And window-shop from your armchair by sending for Disabled Living Foundation (DLF) factsheets and the catalogues of commercial suppliers mentioned later. Full addresses are in the Addresses List (Appendix 2).
Some helpful general reading and websites
Look out all the time for ideas that could help. 'Disabled' literature and websites can give you ideas, but don't overlook all the gadgets and labour-saving devices and tricks around for non-disabled people too. Look in magazines (including the small ads), and shop-by-post leaflets and commercial suppliers' catalogues like those mentioned later in this chapter.
Some helpful organisations
Disabled Living Centres (DLCs)
Each centre (DLC) includes a permanent exhibition that enables people to see and try products and equipment and get information and advice from professional staff (mainly OTs and physios) about what might suit them best, though the centre doesn't actually supply products itself.
Referral from a doctor isn't essential, though may help the staff help you more effectively. They can recommend equipment, and supply leaflets, costings, and details of where gadgets may be bought privately or provided through the NHS or social services. Phone first to make an appointment and to check whether what you're interested in is available to see. For details of your nearest centre use the Assist UK website Assist UK coordinates the UK-wide network of local centres. Or phone the Disabled Living Foundation (DLF) helpline (0845 130 9177, textphone: 020 7432 8009).
The Disabled Living Foundation (DLF)
This is the national disabled living and information centre, a charity, based in London, that provides free, impartial advice (non-medical) about all types of disability equipment and mobility products (including suppliers' addresses) for older and disabled people, their carers, families, and professionals. There's a lot of information on the DLF website, and DLF also publishes an incredible variety of free very informative leaflets (downloadable); Equipment to Assist with Dressing or Putting on Footwear, for instance, and the very wide-ranging Making a Difference includes everyday living needs, communication, leisure and sports, etc.
Very useful too is the DLF's helpline, a phone/email/letter enquiry service, tel: 0845 130 9177, textphone: 020 7432 8009, email: advice@dlf.org.uk The helpline operates five days a week, answering queries on mobility products and disability equipment, where to buy or hire, and related queries.
By prior appointment, you can see and try out disability products in the DLF's Equipment Demonstration Centre (EDC), the largest in the South East. You'll get information on costs and suppliers, though can't actually buy anything there. Displays include wheelchairs, hoists, products to help in the kitchen, bathroom, bedroom, toilet, living room, and to help with reading, writing, eating, mobility. The EDC includes a SmartHome, designed like a flat and displaying the latest technology for independent living at home.
NAIDEX (National Aids for the Disabled Exhibition)
Held every spring and autumn, alternately in London and somewhere else in the UK. An excellent opportunity to see what's available and try before you buy. Contact NAIDEX to find out when and where the next exhibition's being held.
Social services departments and Occupational Therapists
(In the phone book under the name of your local authority/county council, or there's a 'find your local council' link on the government's Directgov website.)
By law, a local authority, through its social services department, is required to assess the needs of a disabled person for any of the following, if asked to do so by that person or by a carer: aids and adaptations, help in the home, recreational facilities in or outside the home, assistance with transport to such activities, holidays, meals, telephones. You can request a social worker's visit if 'in need or at risk'. You can ask your GP for referral, or request their help directly. They may also be able to liaise for you with other departments or organisations. If you can't get out to see them because of disability, ask for a home visit. Social services also administer the Blue Badge scheme which allows parking in certain restricted areas (see chapter 24).
Contact social services to ask to speak to the community occupational therapy service (aids and adaptations), mentioned earlier. Take a quick look beforehand at ARC's Occupational Therapy and Arthritis leaflet and the College of Occupational Therapists website section 'How can OT help me?'. Some community OT services have kitchen/bedroom/bathroom facilities where you can try out sanity-saving gadgets and adaptations. You may find the 'ICES team' (Integrating Community Equipment Services) mentioned. ICES aims to develop and integrate community equipment services in England, remove unnecessary barriers for users and modernise services. It's funded by the Department of Health.
Social services are entitled to charge for some services though can't refuse to provide the service if the disabled person can't pay. What happens in practice varies a lot. Contact Arthritis Care or NRAS or RADAR or other support group for advice if you have problems. Departments are also required to inform disabled people of any other possibly relevant service they're aware of.
You can ask to be put on the social services' Register of Disabled People (see chapter 16). You don't have to be registered though it may help with getting some services.
Some social services employ people part-time to visit disabled people regularly in their homes, eg to help with shopping or fetching prescriptions, or may be able to put you in touch with voluntary organisations like Home Start, which in some areas provide volunteer 'family friends', helping families with young children. See chapter 22 for the immense help one YPA got from her social services. For more background information try the latest annual Social Services Year Book (Prentice Hall, 880 pages!) in your local library.
I've room here to tell you about only a few (addresses are in Appendix 2). Find out about others through DLF leaflets or information service, through your OT or DIAL, or from other sources listed earlier. Some commercial suppliers produce free catalogues you can browse through at home, and order from by post, or online. Their websites vary; some are better illustrated and easier to navigate than others.
Pictures and information in the catalogues can be really helpful. Why not send off for one for ideas not just for you, but for labour-saving presents for other people, too? Frankly, I think it's worth getting several!
Consumer advice
For lots of really clear advice and tips about consumer issues try Consumer Direct, the telephone and online free service funded by the Office of Fair Trading. You can email via the website, or phone for advice on 08454 040506, minicom 08451 231384.
The 'Before you buy', 'After you buy', and 'Watch out!' website sections include info and advice about buying from home (doorstep salesmen or online selling); scams and other things to be wary of; knowing your rights; buying on credit and borrowing money; advice on resolving disputes and gaining redress when things go wrong, etc. There's a really excellent section on a huge range of scams miracle cure scams, doorstep selling scams, work-at-home scams, cheque overpayment scams, premium rate phone scams, debt consolidation, etc.
Look too at the Citizen's Advice Bureau's online Adviceguide on consumer affairs.
Beware doorstep salesmen
Do read what Consumer Direct says about doorstep salesmen, as it updates and expands on these warnings from Arthritis News in 1987:
Online shopping
More about this on Consumer Direct website, and in chapter 23.
Funding of disability products and equipment
A good starting-point is DLF's factsheet Sources of Funding and Obtaining Equipment for Disabled and Older People (downloadable). Some gadgets and equipment are provided free on loan by the NHS or social services. For others you may be asked to contribute some or all of the cost. Don't let that put you off. If you can't pay, explain you have a problem. Perhaps costs can be reduced or waived, or you may be eligible to apply to the discretionary social fund for a non-repayable grant or an interest-free loan. Contact your DWP Disability Benefits Centre for more information.
If you need alterations to your home, to the bathroom or kitchen for instance, ask your OT or social worker whether you qualify for help of some sort, perhaps a disabled facilities grant, which is a grant to help meet the cost of adapting a property for the needs of someone with a disability. There's useful information and advice on the Disability Alliance website and in their Disability Rights Handbook, and on the Directgov website.
The House Adaptations Advisory Service (HAAS) assists disabled people, their families or carers to find an architect or designer who might help them with a house adaptation. HAAS is part of the Centre for Accessible Environments (CAE). (tel/textphone: 020 7840 0125, email info@cae.org.uk).
Special equipment for work can be organised through Disability Employment Advisers (DEAs based at your local JobCentre Plus) under the Access to Work scheme, see the Directgov website and chapter 31. For studying, see Directgov's 'Education and training' section, and chapter 30.
You may be able to get financial help from a voluntary or charitable organisation. Ask your local DIAL or CAB or library for advice. Books in your local library may give you ideas. Try:
Don't forget fairy godmothers and Father Christmas too. My notebook has a section 'Presents I would like', where I jot down not only idle luxuries but all the useful gadgets and labour-saving devices I covet. As soon as Father Christmas or his helper appears, sighing with lack of inspiration 'What do you want for Christmas this year?' sigh yawn sigh out comes my notebook, brimful of solutions to both our problems.
Value Added Tax relief and disabled people
There's a helpful summary 'VAT relief on products and services for disabled people' on the Directgov website, with links to fuller details on the HMRC (HM Revenue & Customs) website.
VAT relief is allowed by HM Revenue & Customs on certain products, equipment and services for personal or domestic use by a disabled person, eg wheelchair, longreach gadgets, key-turners, stocking aids, stairlifts. The order for the product must be accompanied by a statement signed by you or on your behalf, confirming that you are a chronically sick or disabled person and that the goods are being supplied for your personal use. Most commercial suppliers of disability products provide a ready-made declaration form which you need to sign and date; there's an example on HMRC's website, in summary like this:
"I [full name] of [address] am chronically sick or have a disabling condition by reason of [give details], and I am receiving from [name and address of supplier] the goods on this order form, which are being supplied for my personal use. I claim that the supply of these goods is eligible for relief from VAT. [signature and date]"
Sometimes repairs, adaptations or services may qualify for VAT relief, for instance adaptations to make your home accessible, but the rules are complex, so check the facts first. VAT relief may be allowed on some disability adaptations to a car read 'Motor vehicles for disabled people' HMRC Reference Notice 701/59 (March 2002) on the HMRC website.
The rules are complex, and not everything supplied to a disabled person qualifies for VAT relief. For full details see VAT reliefs for disabled people (HMRC reference notice 701/7, August 2002), available online on the HM Revenue & Customs (HMRC) website or from your local VAT office. If you can't find the answer to your questions there, you can call HMRC's National Advice Service, telephone: 0845 010 9000, textphone: 0845 000 2000.
Hiring or Borrowing disability products
Some of us need only occasional use of something like a wheelchair or commode on holiday, for instance, or visiting friends with no downstairs loo, or when we're only temporarily less active than usual. Useful to know that the Red Cross or St John Ambulance can loan out some equipment on a short-term basis for home use. Some commercial firms hire out wheelchairs on a weekly or monthly basis. DLF has a factsheet Wheelchair Hire Services in the London Area or you can email or phone the DLF helpline for help, or try your local Disability Living Centre (DLC). More and more places like the National Trust, museums, and shopping complexes are providing mobility scooters or wheelchairs for temporary use by visitors. Phone first to check.
Some commercial companies selling disability equipment may also offer a hire service for some items, such as special beds and hoists on a monthly or weekly basis (eg Care Necessities, Pegasus. Try looking on the internet or in your Yellow Pages under Disability, Mobility or Hire. Some hire costs may be VAT-free check out the VAT relief information above.
Buying secondhand
Look at DLF's factsheet Sources of Secondhand Equipment. There are also useful tips on Equipmentdirect's website. Refer too to the telephone and online free service Consumer Direct.
Be very careful. If something looks 'too good to be true', it probably is. Again, seek professional advice and 'find out and try before you buy'. And whether you're buying or selling used goods you need to be wary of scams that could part you from your money. Look at Consumer Direct's section on the huge range of scams, which includes the cheque overpayment scam. Read the 'Fraud Alert' section on the Metropolitan Police website, which includes 'internet auction' and 'money transfer' frauds. Others to look at are Justmobility's warnings and eQuip For Life's page on scams.
Secondhand availability is limited: your local DIAL or Disabled Living Centre may be able to suggest local sources. Equipmentdirect.org.uk, run by Hampshire Coalition of Disabled People (HCODP) in association with Hampshire County Council Social Care Services department, lists sources of secondhand disability equipment. Disability newsletters, journals, and websites with adverts for secondhand products include:
Many secondhand products may not be specifically 'disability' products, but could still help make your life easier, help make your limited funds go further, and may also include a recycling feel-good factor! Investigate local charity shops, local newspaper classified adverts, car boot sales, bring and buy sales and even auction rooms, or:
One-off or tailor-made aids, and Remap
Maybe you've scanned all the booklets and seen gadgets galore but still have an unsolved practical problem? Contact the DLF helpline, in writing, by email or by phone they may just come up with a solution! Other possibilities:
Phoning
How would we manage without the phone? In our frailest moments it keeps us in touch with the outside world, lets us chat to friends, do mail-order shopping, even talk on radio phone-ins. A phone means you can work from home and a phone-line means you can use a computer to talk to other computers anywhere in the world.
Some people are nervous about using the phone, especially at work, or for talking to officials. Overcoming any fears is well worthwhile. The phone can 'do your walking' for you, and help you gain 'access' to physically or bureaucratically inaccessible buildings. (See chapter 18 for tips on phoning techniques.) Invisibility on the phone is valuable: make the most of it. No matter how weak and frail you look, you can sound authoritative and get responses which might be difficult face-to-face. Or you can 'put a smile' in your voice, when talking to friends or business contacts, no matter how immobile or painstruck you really look and feel.
Probably the best general independent guide to phones and disability solutions is Ricability's online Stay in Touch 2004, full of information on mainstream and specialist telecoms equipment and services provided for disabled and older customers by the 20 largest fixed and mobile operators, with links to their websites where you can look at products and services.
Helpful too is DLF's factsheet Choosing a Telephone, Textphone and Accessories. The www.phonesreview.co.uk website is 'non-disabled', but may help you assess what's available generally.
Phone companies are keen to help people with disabilities overcome practical problems. Look, for instance, at BT's Age & Disability Action webpages. If you're not on the internet try BT Customer service on 0800 800 150 or an alternative provider's customer service. Look too at communication/telecomms products stocked by commercial suppliers listed earlier.
Try before you buy if you've got special problems, for instance at local disability living centres. Or ask your OT or local BT sales office where you can do this. If you're housebound, they might be able to arrange a home visit.
Some ways of making phoning easier:
Writing and gripping
Weak grip, and stiff and painful fingers are a warning to treat your joints with care. So do please avoid straining them by trying to grip things too tightly, such as pens and pencils that are too thin, and do avoid having to press down hard to write. Look at the tips in ARC's Looking after your joints when you have arthritis; advice includes:
"Take frequent breaks to rest your hands briefly. Reduce the length of time you spend doing these activities and try to relax your grip. Use padding to enlarge the grip on things such as your pen, knife, toothbrush or spanner."
Other tips:
Of course writing isn't the only area where you need to deal with weak hands and gripping problems, and you'll find suggested solutions in other chapters, and below in the 'Computers and word processing' section. Some more ideas:
Reading
Computers and word processing
Old-fashioned typewriters were exciting liberators for both Marie Joseph and Pamela La Fane. Quicker, easier on the joints, and with a much easier-to-read output. Both Marie and Pamela were talented writers with rheumatoid arthritis. Taking up typing launched Marie Joseph on her successful writing career just before her 40th birthday: "As my swollen hands skimmed over the keys, I felt a moment of sheer elation. This was something I could do. This was me "
In the 1940s and 1950s, teenager Pamela La Fane, whose hands became very crippled with RA, worked out a way of typing using a stick, and embarked on a correspondence course in journalism. One result was her moving autobiography It's a Lovely Day, Outside (Gollancz, Ulverscroft), and later, the sequel No Going Back (Ulverscroft).
Many more liberating opportunities are open to us now, through computers, word processing, the internet, emails, forums and chatrooms. No need to travel miles, or to struggle to get reference books off the shelf the books and libraries and information resources of the world are at our finger tips. We can shop from home, communicate with all and sundry, learn online, express ourselves in readable text and graphics, and even produce blockbuster novels if we want! And what a difference computers and information technology can make to the jobs we do, too.
You may have practical problems in using a computer, but there are many ways of overcoming them. Plenty of help and advice too, on other aspects such as funding, choosing, and training. If you're planning to buy a computer, try out as many as you can, and find out as much as you can beforehand. A short introductory course at my local adult education college helped me pinpoint what to look out for and where I had special needs, eg did I prefer a mouse or a touchpad or a trackball? And the local library had computers I could try out, too.
If you need a computer or computer-related advice for your work, ask the Disability Employment Adviser for help, and see chapter 31. For help with studies, see chapter 30.
Don't overlook all the 'non-disabled' information and advice available, for instance on the independent Consumers' Association Which? website. Which? tests, assesses, and reports on best buys in hardware and software and internet provider services.
Look too at product reviews and news in something like WebUser magazine, and its companion website www.webuser.co.uk. Lots of useful info and features for existing users too, such as forums, website reviews, product reviews and updates.
Ask other users, too! Some other sources of information:
Assistive Technology (AT) is any product or service designed to enable independence for disabled and older people (King's Fund consultation, 2001). The Foundation for Assistive Technology (FAST) works with the AT community to support innovation in product development and good practice in service provision. Visit the FAST website, especially its online E-bulletins, for the latest AT news.
Inclusive design is also known as universal design, and design for all. For too long we and disabled people and older people have suffered from 'design exclusion', suffered from thoughtless product design making life unnecessarily difficult for us. But we're not the only people struggling with, for instance, unfriendly shrink-wrap plastic coverings if they and so many other products, facilities and services were designed more thoughtfully, and designed not just for young able-bodied consumers, everyone would benefit.
Roger Coleman, Professor of Inclusive Design and co-Director of the Helen Hamlyn Centre at the Royal College of Art, explains inclusive design:
"In recent years there has been a shift in attitude, away from treating disabled and older people as special cases requiring special design solutions, and towards integrating them in the mainstream of everyday life through a more inclusive approach to the design of buildings, public spaces and, more recently, products and services. This is important for social equality but is also a significant opportunity for business growth through new products and services." (Design Council website Inclusive design, November 2006, updated February 2007)
The whole of Professor Coleman's article, with its related links, detailed bibliography and many references, is well worth reading. Other sources of information on inclusive design include: